I've been there. Navigating the labyrinth of serious and terminal illness for others and, on occasion for myself. I've felt the confusion and fear that comes with it. It's important to understand the options available to us, and two terms that often come up are Hospice Care and Palliative Care. While they seem similar, they serve different purposes. Let's break it down step-by-step, hospice vs palliative care, to clarify the differences and help you decide what might best serve your needs now.
Palliative care is specialized medical care designed for people living with serious illnesses. Its primary aim is to alleviate symptoms, pain, and the stress that comes with these conditions. What’s crucial to know here is that palliative care can go hand-in-hand with curative treatments. This means you don’t have to choose between treating your illness and managing your symptoms—you can have both.
On the other hand, hospice care is a type of palliative care focused specifically on end-of-life care. It’s for individuals who are expected to have six months or less to live if the illness runs its usual course. Unlike palliative care, which can be initiated at any stage of illness, hospice care begins when curative treatments are no longer pursued. The primary focus shifts to comfort and quality of life rather than curative intent.
One essential point is that palliative care can be provided from the moment of diagnosis of a serious illness, be it cancer, advanced heart disease, or other severe conditions. Conversely, hospice care is specifically reserved for the final months of life, when the focus is entirely on quality of life rather than lengthening it.
Hospice care, though also addressing symptoms and providing support, focuses more narrowly on the end-of-life phase. It includes:
It can be difficult to determine when to consider hospice vs palliative care. If you or a loved one is still undergoing curative treatments but struggling with symptoms or stress, palliative care might be the best choice. If curative treatments are no longer effective or desired, and the focus shifts to comfort, then hospice care becomes most appropriate.
Let's clarify common misconceptions:
Myth: Palliative care means giving up on treatment.
Fact: Palliative care supplements curative treatments to improve quality of life.
Myth: Hospice care speeds up death.
Fact: Hospice care focuses on comfort and does not hasten death. In fact, because you are comfortable and your physical and emotional needs are met, you may even live longer than you expect.
Both types of care are designed to support not just the patient but also the family. As someone who’s been a caregiver, I know that the emotional toll can be significant. Palliative and hospice care aim to provide relief from this burden, offering both emotional and practical support.
Let me share a couple of stories to illustrate how one might make the choice between hospice vs palliative care.
Gail: Diagnosed with advanced ovarian cancer, Gail opted for palliative care alongside chemotherapy. This helped manage her nausea and pain, allowing her to enjoy more good days while obtaining curative treatment.
Thomas: In the final stages of COPD, John chose hospice care. The hospice team provided comfort care and emotional support. They helped his family learn to care for him at home, and even helped him visit the redwoods one last time, making his last days as peaceful as possible.
As with all aspects of end-of-life care, Gail and Thomas received care that was based on their own priorities, values, and wishes. This is the central element that makes good, end-of-life care so valuable to patients and their loved ones.
It's never too early to start talking about palliative care. Beginning these conversations early helps manage symptoms better and improves overall quality of life. For hospice care, the conversation should begin when treatments are no longer about curing the illness but about maximizing comfort and quality of life.
And everyone, even if you are not currently facing serious illness, should strongly consider creating an Advance Care Plan to ensure your wishes are respected and you live your life on your own terms.
Deciding between hospice and palliative care is deeply personal and should be based on your values, goals, and the medical situation you are facing. You'll hear me say that a lot here at Life's Final Chapters. Remember, it is your life!
Open discussions with healthcare providers are essential, as are frank conversations with loved ones. Providers can offer you insights tailored to your specific condition, and your loved ones will be on this journey with you. It's imperative that they know what you want. Speaking together openly and with respect is one of the most loving actions you can take for each other.
Another vital aspect is the role of care teams. In both hospice and palliative care, a team medical professionals and others work together to provide comprehensive support.
Your team may include doctors, nurses, social workers, spiritual care counselors, home health aides, grief support professionals, and trained volunteers.
With a good end-of-life care agency, you will be involved in creating your plan of care alongside your family and care team, and that plan will determine which professionals are most involved in your care.
Look for accredited services in your area. Organizations like the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization offer directories and resources to help you find the right care providers. Seeking recommendations from friends and family who have gone through similar experiences can also be helpful. It's important to know that you have the right to select whichever provider you choose.
Sometimes, when patients are discharged from the hospital, they will be given a list of three hospices to choose from. But, you do not have to choose one of those hospices. If you know someone who had excellent care at a different hospice, you can insist on speaking to that hospice to see if they have the capacity to care for you or your loved one.
Remember, you don't have to go through this journey alone. Whether you opt for palliative or hospice care, the aim is to improve your quality of life and provide you and your loved ones with the support you need.
Facing a serious illness or caring for someone who is can feel isolating and overwhelming. But knowledge is empowering. With the right information, you can make informed decisions that align with your values and goals. Reach out, ask questions, and remember—there's a compassionate community ready to support you through this challenging time.
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